Sunday, November 20, 2016

Seven Tips for Moving on From a Breakup


We all go through personal changes and those detours can lead to needing to change the people in our lives; and sometimes they feel that they need to change and decide that we are not what they want anymore. Either way it is painful to separate, but that doesn’t mean that life is over, its means it’s going to get better.


1.       Be grateful for the chance to improve your future. If something or someone is not right for us it drains our potential. Your best life is on the way, but give yourself time to recharge.

2.       Look forward to the next person coming into your life. After a few bad relationships we get to know ourselves and patterns better. Knowing who you are and how you deal with others will help you connect to right energy for this time in your life.

3.       Be grateful for your breath and realize that the stagnant energy you have been taking in will clear. Better breathing means better health so inhale the new and exhale the old.

4.       Clear your space of objects that remind you of your ex. Objects hold energy and releasing them will increase your energy. (We all have precious tokens of past loves that we don’t want to part with. Pack them away in a memory box, but keep them out of sight).

5.       Go back and find the people and things that you have lost since you started your previous relationship. Did you quit a hobby or a friend in favor of your relationship? Reconnect with made you feel good in the past.

6.       Pay attention to the signs that the Universe is sending you. If someone or something keeps showing up in your life and gives you good vibes you should investigate the possibilities, even if you think they/it are out of your reach.

7.       Tune in to your own spiritual guides and gut instincts; they will guide you to your next destination. Now that you are no longer absorbing negative energy your thoughts and feelings will be much clearer.

Good luck in your new life!

Weekly Horoscopes for November 21- 27, 2016


Aries

This week may be rough at work, so set aside some time for meditation. Other peoples’ tempers can cause tension in the field or office and it may be hard to avoid the bad vibes. A friend may try to get between you and your lover out of jealousy over you; be flattered but make clear boundaries

Taurus

Be honest with any potential employers about your work history if you are applying for a new job. You may be surprised at how issues that you thought would make you look bad will actually help you get your foot in the door. Don’t be afraid of “relationship” talks with your partner; this one has new information that will make you feel secure

Gemini

Playing games may be fun for a while, but they won’t get you the person you want most. You will have to be straightforward, and, yes, vulnerable to get to their heart. Make travel plans this week to get the best deals and accommodations possible

Cancer

You have always had the ability to make a difference in the lives of those less fortunate, but try to pamper yourself for a change. The more energy you have the more you can give to others. If you get a compliment from an attractive person don’t brush it off as “just being nice”. Take a leap of faith and keep the flirtation going and see where it leads

Leo

A burst of energy and desire can have you in hot pursuit of someone new; just make sure you know their relationship status and preferences before making any major moves.  Believe in your work even if someone tries to tell you that it’s not good enough; jealous people are just trying to undermine your confidence

Virgo

When doing business this week, make sure that your conversations are private. Someone with loose lips can sabotage your plans. If you plan to approach a potential love interest, make sure that you are willing to dedicate yourself to doing your part before getting involved

Libra

Your favorite people are just a phone call away, so don’t let pride stand in your way of making contact; you may be surprised what they have to offer. Be sure that you know what you want before making any financial plans so that no one else can persuade you into their way of thinking



Scorpio

You are in the process of regeneration, so go ahead and invest in a makeover or life coach to get things moving. You are not crazy! That attractive person is interested in you, so don’t be shy.  Don’t be distracted by anyone else’s deceptions; listen to your gut instincts because they have never failed you before

Sagittarius

 All you have to do to get out of your slump is change your mind. Life’s twists and turns happen for a reason and you need to see what is being offered to you; it may not be the direction you chose, but it’s the right one for you. Someone who once treated you badly will turn around and need your attention; be sure that you can forgive them before getting involved again

Capricorn

The universe is telling you that you need people that will be supportive of you instead of bringing you down. Someone will show their true colors and you will know it is time to make a change; but don’t worry, someone better will be on their way shortly. A business meeting can turn volatile when a jealous coworker snaps; just duck and detach from their energy

Aquarius

Be flexible in business as you may have many offers coming your way and you want the leeway and time to choose the best ones. So don’t commit to anything until every offer has been investigated. A friend of a past lover wants your attention; keep it private to avoid the drama

Pisces

Be open to new friendships even if they seem different than your usual crowd; you need a change of perspective. Don’t try to please someone that doesn’t please you in a love relationship; your energy will just be drained and they will never change


Sunday, November 13, 2016

Weekly Horoscopes for November 14-20, 2016


Aries
It’s going to take a lot of give and take in order to get along with in-laws at this time, but the rewards will be worth it in the end. You all love the same people even if you disagree about everything else. You good taste can be used to make extra income as a personal shopper or wardrobe specialists. You have the eye and the time and other people have the cash and the need for your skills.

Taurus
The full moon in your sign will undoubtedly let you know in your gut exactly what you have been missing.  A strong feeling towards someone you left behind will give you the sense of direction you need to make the home you really want. It’s time to look over your financial portfolio and see what you have and use this time to expand your holdings

Gemini
If someone tries to convince you that you don’t deserve some of the blessings in your life you should let that be the last thing they say to you. Jealous people may want you to feel guilty for your good fortune, but that is just a way of stealing your energy so don’t allow them to influence you. Borrowing money may tricky right now; the strings attached may not be worth the cash in the long run

Cancer
If you are interested in marketing your skills or a new project or product, the time to do so in now! You have a lot more influence over others than you think so show everyone what you’ve got and let them know how they can get it- for a price! Don’t allow siblings or close friends to speak for you in a relationship dispute; you can handle your own business and have your own opinions to express

Leo
 Technology may offer the answer to an easier way of doing business, but allow machines to override the human touch. Allow your software or gadgets to keep your schedules and assist you in getting things done, but be sure that you don’t lose your people skills in the process. Be careful of the comments you make to your lover, even in jest; they are feeling extra sensitive right now and you could upset them more than you know

Virgo
If you want to approach a possible love interest you will need to use a light touch this week. It won’t do much good to force your energy onto them; introduce yourself and let them get used to your energy and pretty soon they will find it hard to resist you. Make a shopping list when buying work inventory; that one little thing that you forget could hold up your whole project

Libra
Don’t make snap judgments about someone because of a social faux pas on their part; they are just learning the ropes and they can be a great asset to you in the future. Don’t be offended by their gaffe; realize they are just trying too hard to impress you. Make your investments now instead of waiting for the New Year. You will feel more secure if you get to it right away

Scorpio
The endings that are occurring in your life are all for the best and won’t hurt as much as you think. The pain was all in the past so a surge of relief may overtake you, even if you expect heartache. News of an inheritance may be expected, but the amount may surprise you, so be ready to make investments to keep you legacy safe

Sagittarius
If you want support from others all you have to do is ask; but if you are demanding things from others you may find that no one has the energy or patience to give you what you need. Try to relax, and let the good fortune catch up to you instead of forcing issues. Make sure you don’t miss a potential romantic encounter by being in a hurry; if you see someone you like take the time to let them know that you are noticing them

Capricorn
Your business sense may lead you to a lucrative, though unusual new project. Don’t let anyone tell you that you are wrong because your innovations are unusual, just trust your instincts and you can keep all the spoils to yourself. If you are unsure of a potential new love interest its best to lay low for a while. If something doesn’t feel right you don’t invest any more energy into the relationship

Aquarius
It is essential that you mark your territory when it comes to love and business. You have good taste, and everyone wants what you have, so you should be sure to protect it all with the force of your personality. Keep all of your work ideas to yourself until you are ready to present them to your partners or higher ups. You want your innovations to be a complete surprise for maximum impact

Pisces

You will be motivated to clear up an unfortunate misunderstanding at work, but you may need to be strategic in your timing. Wait until the mood is more forgiving to state your case; if you force the issue you will only cause delays in clearing up the mess. A gift from your partner may seem simple, but the sentiment behind it is deep; tune into them and feel what they are trying to convey

Full moon in Taurus Monday November 14, 2016




The energy of the sun and moon are quite stable in this upcoming full moon, and somewhat quiet. This stillness of body (Taurus) and the psychic realms (Scorpio) give us a moment when physical reality stops and rests. While the other planets are very busy; the mind’s wanderings (Mercury in Sagittarius) have a chance to catch up to the truth. Venus in Capricorn is longing to know how to wisely invest (Capricorn) our hearts (Venus) and along with Pluto (passion). Jupiter in Libra wants to expand our horizons (Jupiter) through the power of partnerships (Libra).  So we have a lot to think, feel and express at this time. The feelings the Taurus Full Moon compel us to recognize may be a bit overwhelming in a quiet way. The sense of knowing that the body has will free our minds, so we may need to take some time out in solitude to adjust and get back in balance with ourselves.

This energy will let us know, definitely, whom and what we desire and what we don’t. This is where we make decisions that affect our lives, so we must all listen to those little whispers from our guides and the sensations that let us know something “in our bones”. Journaling can be a great tool at this time, to help us sort out our thoughts and release energies we don’t need.

Believing in our inner power and sense of knowing is the theme of this full moon; but whether or not we choose to use these gifts are up to us individually.


Friday, November 11, 2016

Venus in Capricorn November 11-Decemeber 7, 2016


Venus’ energy represents whom and what we like, as well as our relationship to money. Venus in Capricorn (the sign of conservatism and authority) is not stingy, but discerning. Those with this placement are often described as cold and selfish, nothing could be farther from the truth. These natives have an air of responsibility about them to make others feel comfortable in one sense, but are sometimes referred to as “intimidating” or “unapproachable” when it comes to dating, but once they feel comfortable with someone they will open up generously.

Venus in Capricorn is all about “investments”; if giving will not help anyone or end up in any kind of value then it’s just a drain. If there is a cause or purpose that will be productive, then it will interest these natives. Women with this placement often have issues in our society-the urge to get ahead- to the mountaintop- can be frustrating and resented, but the natural attractiveness of these natives makes them noticed and they usually have an air of authority or power. This placement likes privacy and control when it comes to love and money and also deeply needs security from relationships- this is the “diamonds are a girl’s best friend” energy for women and “it’s all in the bank” energy for men.

This transit will affect everyone in that we all are a little more conservative with our money and a lot more serious about whom we allow close to us. Coming on the heels of the presidential election and the changes that come with it, we may want to feel secure by having more money in the bank and earth beneath our feet (this transit bodes well for real estate transactions).

Pluto, the planet of transformation, is currently at 15 degrees Capricorn, so Venus will be making her way through and when these two planets meet, there is the potential for jealousy and possessiveness, and this being in the sign of Capricorn, boundaries will be a big deal, “this is mine, and you can’t have it-that is yours, but I really desire (deserve) it”. There could be power struggles in relationships of all kinds over control and resources. Many people may demand a commitment and something to back it up, a put your money where your mouth is sort of deal.

Wherever this falls in our personal natal charts this transit will give us the chance to invest in what we want and to create boundaries to protect ourselves from the things we don’t want, and hopefully the wisdom to know the difference.






Monday, November 7, 2016

Mars enters Aquarius


Mars enters Aquarius November 9, 2016 and will stay there until December 19th. Aquarius is the natural 11th house of the zodiac representing groups of people, acquaintances, and social causes. If you are an Aquarian sun, moon or ascendant sign this transit will raise your social and romantic profile. You may be more popular than you expect, so plan to use your calendar to keep track of all of your plans. This can also get you fired up in business or a new social cause where you are networking with new groups. Your desire for what you want will expand,, but don’t lay all of your eggs in one basket, for your ruling planet, Uranus may have something new in store for you!

For everyone else, depending on your personal natal points and planets, this transit will really fire up the already volatile socio-political landscape. We are already seeing social unrest in many parts of the world and the results of the presidential election will definitely add to this. Fighting for social change and in some cases fighting for peace and justice will be flavor of the next month during this transit. There could also be in-fighting among groups causing a change in hierarchy. This can be a change in leadership in your Saturday night billiards club or in important religious (Saturn in Sagittarius) institutions.

 We may find ourselves attracted to new interests or cliques that may have seemed out of character before. We just have to be careful not to get involved in anything that we can’t get out of later, especially if we are just fired up (Mars) during this transit.


Sunday, November 6, 2016

Weekly Horoscopes for November 7-13, 2016

Aries
Challenges at work may seem insurmountable, but they are actually opportunities to get you on the right track. Don’t worry about tacking everything all at once, or be concerned with perfection, just do your best and others will quickly take notice. If you aren’t sure how to get your partner’s attention try candlelight; you can’t go wrong

Taurus
Be aware that your smile says more than any words you could come up with; so instead of using a cheesy pick up line try flashing your pearly whites instead, you can’t go wrong. You may be surprised at the lovely reaction you get. Pay extra attention to financial documents this week; a fire safe or other heavy duty container will keep you organized and protected

Gemini
Playing the role of matchmaker can be a lot of fun, but don’t push people together too quickly; you don’t want to get blamed if things don’t work out. Real estate transactions can be tricky at this time so check all details. A bike or jogging path may turn out to be the best place to meet someone new right now, so take a friend along and wear cute active wear to attract what you are looking for

Cancer
Be nice even if you don’t feel like it this week; you may have an agenda or cause that you need support for later in the month and you need all the people power you can get. Wear something extra special for your regular date night; let your partner know that they are worth the effort

Leo
Take advantage of some of the free things coming your way from friends and family. You may be offered some special things from special people so enjoy but don’t forget your gratitude.  Make an effort to give your lover once more chance before checking out of the relationship; there may be some communication issues and the right words can change everything

Virgo
If you think that you are out of luck on the dating scene, think again, you just aren’t noticing who’s noticing you. Pay attention, even if think someone may be out of your league. Work related drama is not worth your time; don’t let cranky coworkers make you lose your focus on the job

Libra
Saying and doing are two different things, so if you really want to keep your relationship going you need to keep your promises and show more than tell. An old friend may need advice from you, and in the process you may find that you get the solution to your own problems as well. Helping others is the way to clarity

Scorpio
You process information much differently from others and this can cause a lot of issues if you don’t understand that. You may see dollar signs where someone else just sees a green field, so take the time to explain how you think and feel to get communication on the right track. A surprise admirer could show up and confess their love this week, so be ready to jump up to meet them or let them down gently

Sagittarius
Your focus is getting stronger, so use it to tackle all of the chores and errands you may have been putting off.  Once you have done that you will be surprised at how much better you feel; you may even find money you never knew you had. Old flames can appear anytime so have a speech prepared to take your power back

Capricorn
Be careful with medications at this time; your system may be extra sensitive so be sure to take the recommended dosage instead of an extra for good measure. Make sure that you are doing what you need to keep up your self esteem so that you make a good impression on an attractive, but intimidating person. Skip the usual hearts and flowers for a friend’s birthday and give them something serious that they can use to promote themselves in business or academics

Aquarius
Your party days are only getting better, but this week, take it easy on the booze. You want to be fully in control when you run into that one person that makes you week in the knees. Make time to let the others in your life know what they mean to you; as your life gets busier it’s easy to lose touch with the people you care about most

Pisces
Placing the blame on another will not help your situation. If you have made a social faux pas, it’s okay, you will be forgiven, but you have to at least acknowledge your mistake. Stay sharp this week as your romantic partner may be looking very good to someone else and you want to make sure that they don’t go too far. Even if you trust your partner, you want to avoid jealous situations